Saturday, September 4, 2010

Quit Shoulding All Over Yourself!

What is it with the word Should or Trying. Either you do or you don't. The moment you label any experience with a word like "Should" or "Trying" you give yourself an option to not succeed. You actually allow yourself to stand still and do nothing. Remember when you label any experience, the experience becomes the label. You must change the word "should" to must. You must consciously make a choice and "decide" to replace all your should with musts. The word ‘decide’ means to ‘cut away from’. When we make a clear decision for what we really want in our life we start the wheels in motion. The moment you "decide" to accomplish anything your brain sets out to find the how's. It's not always easy as a matter of fact it's hard and often it requires that we ‘cut away from’ anything that is unlike that clear choice. Sometimes this cutting away is painful, especially when it involves cutting away from people or communities we have loved.

I can tell you that whenever you go through a painful extraction from something or someone there is always a growth that takes place. The growth is what is necessary for all of us to expand and rise up to become all that are creator has designed us to be.

The next time you are faced with a choice First, you MUST decide on your outcome. Second, take massive action. Third, be relentless in achieving your results. Success leaves clues so find someone who has achieved what you are after and model them. Anything is possible just do it.

Enjoy Life,

Lori Meadows

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